Can Therapy Help Me?

by Don Laird, NCC, LPC

Can Therapy Help Me? The short answer is, yes. Here are seven reasons why.

If you’re wondering, “Can therapy help me?”, you’re not alone. Most people question whether therapy will be effective for them, especially if they’ve never tried it before or are uncertain about what to expect. The answer isn’t one-size-fits-all, but therapy can be beneficial in helping you navigate life’s challenges, improve your emotional well-being, promote wellness, and help you better understand yourself and your relationships. Here are some reasons therapy might help you starting today.

1. Address Emotional Struggles

Whether you’re dealing with anxiety, depression, grief, or stress, therapy provides a safe space to explore and navigate your emotions. Feeling overwhelmed is a common experience, and therapy can offer strategies to manage and process these emotions effectively. Through different therapeutic techniques, you can learn how to identify triggers, understand your emotions and behaviors, and regain control over how you feel.

2. Develop Better Coping Strategies

Life throws many curve balls at us — relationship issues, career stress, personal setbacks, family disagreements, and more. If you feel like you’re not coping well, therapy can help you develop healthier ways to respond to life’s many challenges. By learning new coping skills, you’ll be better equipped to handle stress, manage negative thinking, build emotional resilience, and promote mental fitness.

3. Improve Your Relationships

If you’re experiencing conflict in your relationships or feel disconnected from others, therapy can be an incredibly valuable tool. Working with a therapist helps you understand yourself and others more deeply, improving communication and emotional intimacy. Whether it’s with a spouse, partner, family member, or friend, therapy can help you navigate challenging dynamics and create healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

5. Break Unhealthy Patterns

Many of us carry patterns from the past that do not serve us well anymore —whether it’s a tendency to self-sabotage, avoid difficult conversations or situations, or engage in negative thinking. Therapy can help you identify these habits and work on breaking them. By learning to change destructive patterns, you can create a healthier and more positive way of living.

6. Feel Heard, Understood, and Supported

This is the trifecta of therapy and of living a healthy life. What we need and crave most is someone who will listen without judgment as they offer empathy, support, and understanding. We rarely get this kind of unconditional support from our family or friends. A therapist provides a compassionate space where you can express your thoughts, feelings, struggles,and concerns openly. Feeling heard and validated can be a powerful part of the healing process, helping you feel less isolated in your struggles. 

7. Provide Tools for the Future

Therapy isn’t just about addressing past or current issues — it’s also about building a stronger foundation for the future. The insights and tools you gain from therapy can help you better navigate future challenges, make informed decisions, and create a greater sense of well-being moving forward.

So, Can Therapy Help You?

The short answer is: Yes, therapy can help. But the effectiveness of therapy depends on your commitment, your openness to change, and finding the right therapist. If you’re willing to invest time in yourself and promote self-exploration, therapy can provide the support, guidance, and tools you need to create positive changes in your life.

Contact eTalkTherapy.com today to get started!

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The Accidental Existentialist Issue 3

Read the SUMMER 2018 edition of The Accidental Existentialist now or download it to read later. In this issue you will find great articles and new works by mental health professionals Dr. Chloe Paidoussis-MitchellMorgan Roberts, Mandi C. Dalicandro-Turk and Don Laird. We would love to hear from you, please leave a comment below – Enjoy!

The sun struggles up another beautiful day,
And I felt glad in my own suspicious way,
Despite the contradiction and confusion,
Felt tragic without reason,
There’s malice and there’s magic in every season…
— Elvis Costello

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In spite of the sunshine and best of intentions, the summer months can sometimes feel like a glass half-empty, glass half-full question. It is the noontime of our seasonal clocks and, in my case, a faint reminder of the noontime of existence. Seasonally we are poised to reach our yearly zenith of sunshine, warmth and outdoor activities. Yet, at fifty-two years of age I am situated well into the second half of my life. With luck, I might have another 30 years, but the reality of it is, and existentially speaking, there are no guarantees. For all intents and purposes the shadow of death grows just a bit larger with each passing day. Unlike when I was in my thirties, I feel it now. It’s not a concept, theory or construct; it’s physical and it can haunt my thoughts at the damndest times. The words of Nietzsche seem to echo for me these days in a different, but comforting way, “We would consider every day wasted,” remarks Nietzsche’s Zarathustra, “in which we had not danced at least once. And we would consider every truth false that was not followed by at least one laugh.” May your summer be long and filled with as many hopes, dreams and fulfilled wishes as you can imagine.

Peace,
Don

In this issue:


(Smultronstället) Wild Strawberries: Therapy and the Art of Aging
by Don Laird, MS, NCC, LPC, DCC

eTalkTherapy - talk with a counselor onlineSince their inception, motion pictures have allowed us to explore the human condition through an amalgamation of sound, lighting, editing, musical score and performance, coupled with traditional storytelling. To claim that one film more than any other illuminates the arc of human existence that it has become a standard by which all other films of its type shall be measured may seem like an overstatement. Yet, Ingmar Bergman’s Wild Strawberries manages to accomplish this in 90 minutes of postwar beauty. Read more…


Love Wins: Groundbreaking LGBTQIA Leaders Through History  
by Morgan Roberts, MSPC

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Every June, there are Pride Parades throughout the country and world, celebrating gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex, and asexual individuals. Nevertheless, there are many who continually attempt to invalidate the lives of those in the LGBTQIA community. More conservative states frequently pass legislature hindering the community which contradicts public opinion. The Human Rights Campaign reported in 2014 that 59 percent of Americans support marriage equality, with 61 percent of people favor allowing same-sex couples to adopt. Read more…


Grief Matters: Living with Loss
by Dr. Chloe Paidoussis-Mitchell, Cpsychol, UK Chartered Counselling Psychologist
(Follow her blog at https://dr-chloe.com

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As a Grief Psychologist, I have the privilege of working with people from all over the globe who are struggling to find a way to embrace life meaningfully again after a very painful loss.

Grief is inevitable. All of us will experience it at some point in our life and how we respond to it is unique to us. Grief is a personal, psychological response to the death of a very loved one and when it happens – whether expected or sudden – it is painful, disorientating and knocks our sense of who we are, how we are and what feels relevant and meaningful again. In grief, our regular way of being is no longer relevant. People often talk about feeling lost and alienated. Read more…


The Impact of Chronic Stress
by Mandi C. Dalicandro-Turk, MSPC

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Stress is difficult to contend with for many. Chronic stress has the potential to impact an individual’s physiological and/or psychological health and well-being. Long-term, the probability exists for stress to spillover into important facets of daily life, and affect an individual’s capacity to function.

HPA Axis
Health related issues begin systematically, many times, prior to an individual having awareness of physiological and/or psychological issues being present or the associated long-term effects. The hypothalamic pituitary adrenal (HPA) axis has an important role in fighting and managing stress. Read more…


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This is your opportunity to submit educational and informative content that promotes growth in all aspects of mental health issues from an existential or humanistic perspective. Upon publication of your article, you will receive a $25 stipend.

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